Day one passed...!!!...with a successfully done...hihi..x tido kay...dok depan skali depan batang idung penceramah...
Nota sy n buku utk di baca...sila abaikan tulisan yg buruk itu...Salam...hello peeps...yerp...yerp...i'm halfly done with kursus pra perkahwinan...hehe...sy sgt galak kan...but i love to go there...ustaz2 yg sgt lawak...kelakar sgt...but di sebalik gelak ketawa tuh penuh dgn pengajaran n ilmu2 baru that i am able to catch up...owh owh i'm feeling like remaja should attend this course....not that t courage them to get married earlier but...there it goes ustaz2 tu explain ciri2 lelai n suami yg sepatutnya...also from their experiences...i just realize...
Apa yg ustaz ckp tuh btul seperti pemerhatian saya all this while...masa couple semua indah...kalo terasa nak mkn ckp je...of course our mr.right will right away bawak kan...dgn penuh kasih syg...nak mkn apa, nak beli apa even nak kemana ja...but pas kawen ustaz ckp ada satu kes ni si suami belikan 2 bungkus makanan n he just eat them all by himself...x hingat perut isteri langsung...owh terus sy kecut perut...sy sgt takut nak mengahadapi situasi itu...owh sy sungguh2 x mahu mengahadapi situasi itu....mmg nampak simple je problem itu but but pls see through how keciknya hati si isteri if that happen...ustaz ckp perkara2 kecik macam ni la yg bawak cerai berai....owh mintak di jauhi...sy ni dah la sgt sensitif orgnya...
Ustaz tu kerja pejabat NCR which mean nikah cerai rujuk...hehe about 30 years experiences and he knows well perihal nikah cerai nih...betapa bykknya pasangan yg bercerai kerana x sefahaman...even kerana perkara kecil...he told a story where a couple ‘coupled’ for 15 years n only married for 15 days...seolah kalo ada anak tuh dah form 3 dah...nak menduduki PMR dah...why they want divorce badly????...sbb they can’t stand each other nyer perangai...selagi kita x duduk dgn couple kita kita x kan tahu perangai sebenarnya....btulla kata org tua2...’x kawen lagi mmg semuanya indah...’ this time it makes me aware so much...
Actually byk benda positif yg di terangkan di kursus tadi...sy merasakan mR.Z ptt hadir di sesi ini dgn sy...sy mahu dia dgr dgn teliti perihal perempuan n emosi...tambah2 waktu berpantang...hubby should take care of us during that time sbb ms tu kita senang nak dpt serangan emosi or ‘perkara2 halus’...owh owh sy gelabah mendengar ini...sbb i’m feeling like mR.Z n i will stay apart lepas kawen nnti. He is in KL and i’m ere far apart ere....takutnya...satu lagi perkara yg melekat kuat di otak sy perihal kewangan...KITA MESTI ADA KEWANGAN YG KUKUH selepas kawen utk membina keluarga...sy cuma da duhet smpai kahwen je ni...T_T...tapi gatal nak kawen ni...x nak tangguh dah ni...adeh...!!!
Esok sambung lagik kursus ni...bagus2...i just feel kursus kawen ni sgt2 bagus utk pasangan nak kawen...=)...jgn nak gatai ja nih...
xoxo
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